If your girl is the apologetic type, constantly saying she’s sorry, reassure her with phrases like “it’s your fault” and “I’m not upset.” Apologetic girls always feel they’ve been a burden to you, so be sure to make them feel like you never perceived them as such. Telling them you’re not upset is a great… Read more

Girls become spoiled brats if you give them everything they want. To keep a girl happy and obedient, learn to say ‘no.’ Sure, she’ll whine and fuss for a little while, but in the end, she’ll appreciate that you have set boundaries for her and won’t let her overstep them. -VIS

As she falls asleep in your arms, slowly wrap your hand around her throat and give it a very subtle squeeze. She’ll feel so secure by what you’re doing that she’ll reach for your forearm, smile, then cuddle down deeper into you for a long nap. A hand around her throat means you’ve got everything… Read more

There are some traditional, submissive girls who love to bake, but despise cooking. Why is that? Baking involves obedience.  If she follows the instructions exactly, the baked goods will always turn out perfectly.  Think of it as the baking book giving orders.  If all she has to do is obey, she knows everything will be… Read more

There is video of rebels burning books in Portland. This is the end of the resistance. If you resist the government, that’s one thing. But to burn books is to remind us of 1939 Nazi Germany. Because of the burning of books, I no longer support the effort of protesters in Portland, Seattle, and elsewhere.… Read more

“Ask not your elder a question, for they will give you three answers, all of which are true and terrifying to know.” -Unknown

There’s a reason Traditional men call their girls “pet”.  Just like a pet, a submissive girl needs to know there are boundaries.  Fences keep in pets and rules keep girls accountable. Just like a pet, a submissive girl needs appreciation.  She needs to hear “good girl” often to know she’s loved and valued. Just like… Read more

You asked him to make a decision for you and he didn’t give you the answer you wanted to hear. But look back on your relationship with him.  He’s always been right or, at least, rarely wrong.  And if you think hard, you may not have realized it at the time, or the next day,… Read more

When men are talking, stay busy and be quiet. -VIS

“This man is clearly a girl whisperer.  He knows what he’s talking about.” -Amazon reviewer S. Anderson. The Best of Vintage in Stepford by Mr. V. I. Stepford is available for $2.99 for Kindle and $4.29 for paperback. Available here: Also available across Europe and in Japan, Brazil, Canada, and Mexico.

Look at this little dummy.  She has exactly zero shame about showing herself off as an object for men’s amusement.  Best of all, she’s just being herself. Silly girls are fun girls.  And fun girls are sexy girls. Be sexy.  Be silly.  Be fun. -VIS

If you’re offended by anything written on my blog, please seek immediate medical attention. Because doctors and nurses deserve a good laugh, too. -VIS

“I’m yours” is not just a cute little thing she says instead of “I love you”.  She’s proving that she has surrendered her will to yours, her body to your pleasure, and her mind to your imagination. Don’t take the phrase “I’m yours” for granted. It means more than you think it does. -VIS

She cussed.  Immediately, you bristled and replied in a low, gruff tone, “language, young lady.” Now watch her blush as she gets wet from your stern correction. -VIS