If you and your girl have chosen to rename her, choose something that suits her personality.
When babies are born, parents choose a name knowing nothing about whom the child will become. But you, as her Traditional Man, know her better than her parents did when she was born, so choose something that suits her.
Is she a talented musician? Perhaps Melodie would suit her. Is she interested in gardening? Perhaps Rose is an appropriate name. Does she love old movies? Perhaps name her after an old-time movie star. Or, perhaps, make up a name out of thin air that you feel best reflects her personality.
Whenever you call her by her new name, she’s certain to feel the sense of ownership it projects. Like a tug on a leash, she’ll learn to respond better to her new name than her old one.
So your traditional girl is stressed to the max? Her anxiety is climbing, she’s having a difficult time dealing with everything going on in her life, and it seems like she may fall apart at any moment.
It’s your first instinct in such a situation to relax the rules and broaden her boundaries, but that would be a huge mistake. At times like that, your girl needs more restrictions to feel safe.
When her world starts spinning out of control, the only real safety net she knows is that the boundaries and rules you set upon her give her comfort.
For example, let’s say you’re talking to her while she’s in a stressful situation and you give her a piece of advice. She replies, “yeah.” Don’t let that go. Call her out on it.
“It’s not ‘yeah’, little girl,” you remind her. “It’s ‘yes Sir’.”
This is called protocol. How your girl addresses you and the formality with which she responds restricts her language and her thoughts.
When her thoughts are restricted, she can’t overthink. When she can’t overthink, she can’t get overwhelmed. And when she can’t get overwhelmed, it’s easier for her to face the task at hand.
To your girl in a difficult situation, more structure = less stress.
From my former #1 New Release, A Man Explained it to Me!
When it’s hot outside, you need to drink more water because water keeps your body cool. And probably everybody and his brother has told you that eating salt is bad for you.
But when it gets really, really hot outside, sometimes you can get very sick from the heat. And if the ambulance men come to help you, the first thing they’ll do is put a needle of something called “saline solution” into your arm. “Saline solution” is just a fancy man-word for salt water.
See, too much salt is bad for you. But when it’s very, very hot outside, you need a little bit of salt in your body to help you keep water in your body. Salt is very good at helping the body hold on to water. Why?
You’ve heard of strong worker men pouring salt on the roads when it’s icy or snowing and that’s because water loves salt. As soon as water touches salt, it goes right into the salt crystals like magic. With your body, it’s kinda the same. If your body has a good amount of salt in it, the water in your body will say, “hey, I’m not leaving this body! There’s salt in here and salt is my friend!” So the salt tells the water to stay in your body and you don’t get sick.
So if it’s very hot outside and you don’t have air conditioning, or if you’re at the water park in your cute little bikini on a very hot day, be sure to eat some saltine crackers. Drink lots of water, too! Together, salt and water will make sure you don’t get sick.
Beg your man to take your rights away, even if only for a weekend.
What have rights done for you anyway? You get to vote, except you think the candidates suck. You get equal opportunity, though all you want to do is be a housewife/sex toy. You can say and think whatever you wish, except that you really want a dominant, older man to tell you to shut your pretty little mouth and do as you’re told.
What have rights done for you anyway? Do your rights bring true happiness? Absolutely not.
So beg your man to strip you of your rights. You’ll be amazed how happiness greets you at the end of a chain.
It means “good things are in the middle.” Extremism of any kind doesn’t work.
Take, for example, feminism. While equality may seem like a good idea on paper, it’s not human nature. For all of human history, women have been the support system for men while the men provided, protected, and cherished. And when you consider intersectional feminism, a philosophy by which all White men are guilty of a crime they never committed, that’s extremism that doesn’t work.
But take a look at the other side of the coin. Misogyny doesn’t work. Oh sure, misogyny is fun for a sexual thrill, but it doesn’t make for a working relationship. No man worth his salt is going to pay $20,000 for a girl’s plastic surgery only to have her stay home and lie in bed as a fucktoy while contributing nothing to the household. Sex takes up maybe 1/6th of your day – ¼ of your day if your sex drive is incredibly high. But what do you do for the other 8, 10, 20 hours of the day? You have to have a working dynamic, and a misogyny dynamic just doesn’t work in the long run.
This is where the Men First movement comes in. Sure, Men First advocates that the man’s pleasure comes first, that a man’s decision is better than the decision of a silly girl, and that a man speaks while the girl is silent, but it also means that the man holds doors open for his girl (thereby allowing the girl to go first), the man goes downstairs first when there’s a noise in the house at 2am, and when his girl is getting anxious, the man immediately stops what he’s doing to calm her down and reassure her that everything is fine.
Men First is the middle ground between feminism and misogyny.
We live in a society that pressures young women to go into fields like business and law. Businesswomen and lawyers spend $300 per month on lattes, $2,000 – $3,000 per month on lunches, and a $500 for a vintage outfit, and $250 for maid service. A good homemaker can provide delicious custom lattes to herself and her husband for less than $30 per month, excellent deli–quality lunches for less than $150 per month, can create a unique vintage outfit for herself for under $50, and the only expense involved in keeping the home clean is buying the cleaning products.
You see, being a homemaker is a great deal different than what you’ve been taught; it’s not the lazy, stupid route that feminists would have you believe. As the Operations Manager of a home, the homemaker must be sure to lower expenses of the home without sacrificing quality (sounds like the job of a CEO if you think about it). The extra money that the homemaker saves can be spent by her husband on home improvements, buying her new appliances, improving the garden, new pots and pans, Christmas, Birthdays, Valentine’s Day, even vacations for the two of you.
It’s not as glamorous as being a businesswoman or lawyer? That depends on how glamorous you make it. Why can’t you go about your homemaking duties dressed in heels and a vintage dress with pearls and full makeup on?
You don’t get as much recognition from your boss if you’re a homemaker? Nonsense. As a homemaker, your boss gives you sex, gifts, shoes, flowers, you name it. If that’s not recognition, tell me what is.
Learning to cook, clean, sew, and sexually pleasure your husband are critical skills. And while some may come more naturally than others, these skills are essential to the smooth and efficient operation of the home.
On some Traditional Gender Roles blogs, we see a lot of “stay home and suck dick” memes which is a great sexual fantasy, but it doesn’t do much to improve the man’s financial standing in the world. Your husband can’t be considered successful if you are nothing more than a sexual toy. Just staying home and pleasuring your husband is the job of a housewife – a homemaker’s job is much more difficult. Cooking, cleaning, sewing, gardening, laundry, ironing, medicine, organization – these are critical skills to the homemaker.
So the next time you’re told that “being a homemaker is a job for losers”, you can quietly giggle knowing that you’ll be dressed in unique, stylish clothes, eating restaurant level food for every meal, enjoying top–quality lattes, coffees, and teas, all while looking spectacular doing it.
Homemaker is a loser job?
No. An hour long commute only to spend half your day’s wages on clothes, coffee, and food is for losers.