My new ebook is now available!

My new book, A Man Explained It To Me!: Everyday Topics Mansplained So Well That Even A Woman Can Understand Them by Mr. V. I. Stepford is now available on Amazon.  Below are links to various countries where you can purchase it:







The Netherlands







Price is $2.99 USD for Kindle edition.


New Book To Be Released Soon!

Amazon is currently reviewing my new book,  A Man Explained It To Me!: Everyday Topics Mansplained So Well That Even A Woman Can Understand Them by Mr. V. I. Stepford, for publication.

I expect the book will be released by January 23, 2019, but I will certainly keep you all informed when the book goes live on Amazon.

It is only in Kindle format right now, but I should have the paperback version available within a week.

This will be the first in the Mansplaining Series by Mr. V. I. Stepford.


Help Her Grow.

One of the most important things you need to focus on with your traditional girl is her personal growth and overcoming some of her fears.  Carl Jung said that the best way to overcome a personal fear is to face it.

If she’s afraid of heights, take her into a building to the second floor for several days in a row. The next week, take her to the third floor for several days.  The next week, the fourth floor and so on.  If you don’t have a tall building nearby, have her lie down, close her eyes, and imagine these things.  Slowly, as she confronts her fears, she’ll overcome them.

I’ll give you an example.

My girl, Christina, was incredibly envious of my interactions with other women.  If I would so much as laugh at something another girl said, Christina would get quite upset.

But slowly, I showed her that my interactions were completely harmless and her jealousy began to subside.

In fact, Christina’s jealousy has swung the other way.  We’ve recently been talking about adding a second girl to the relationship and becoming poly.  And it’s all because Christina confronted her fears and stared them down.

Your number one priority in your relationship with your traditional girl is to help her grow.  If she’s not growing, she’s just cruising through life, and that is unhealthy for her and for your relationship.

It’s great when she’s a good girl, but it’s healthier when she’s an even better girl.