My new book, A Man Explained It To Me!: Everyday Topics Mansplained So Well That Even A Woman Can Understand Them by Mr. V. I. Stepford is now available on Amazon. Below are links to various countries where you can purchase it:
Price is $2.99 USD for Kindle edition.
-VIS
Amazon is currently reviewing my new book, A Man Explained It To Me!: Everyday Topics Mansplained So Well That Even A Woman Can Understand Them by Mr. V. I. Stepford, for publication.
I expect the book will be released by January 23, 2019, but I will certainly keep you all informed when the book goes live on Amazon.
It is only in Kindle format right now, but I should have the paperback version available within a week.
This will be the first in the Mansplaining Series by Mr. V. I. Stepford.
-VIS
“You screwed it up. I can’t believe it. Look, you had one job. One job! And you screwed it up! This is going to take hours to fix. Now I have to get Hodgkins to do this and he hates this job. I’ll let it slide this time, but I’m warning you, man, you blow it like this again and you’re out the door!”
“You messed it up? Aww, honey, don’t worry about it. You’re just a girl and it was a tough job. Hodgkins wanted to do it anyway so I’ll let him do it. You just stand there and look pretty and answer phones, ok?”
-VIS
A slap on the behind, a gentle tug on the hair, a chin grab with a kiss – all of these things done in public don’t embarrass her as much as they remind her that, above all other things she may be, she is your possession – now and always.
-VIS
I see a lot of people saying, “real men don’t do this” and “real men don’t do that.”
You know what? Screw you. You don’t get to define what real men are and are not. Stop throwing your pathetic insults just because someone doesn’t behave according to your ridiculous standards.
Sometimes men are effeminate. Sometimes men are extremely masculine. Sometimes men are nerds. Sometimes they’re over-achieving Alphas.
But guess what? They’re all real men, and they don’t need you to define the tenets of masculinity for them. As long as they’re comfortable with themselves, you can shove your opinions on “real men” where the sun don’t shine.
“Real men” is as much of a myth as “toxic masculinity.” It’s a complete fabrication by people who have an impossible ideal of how people should behave. Talk about projecting image issues – people who use the terms “real men” or “toxic masculinity” are usually the same ones who criticize others for creating problems regarding self-image and self-worth.
Men behave the way they want to behave. Men are their own people. Men don’t need or want your definitions of what makes them real.
I can’t stress this enough: all men are real men.
And if you can’t accept that, maybe it’s you who’s not being real.
-VIS
Why are we, in the Traditional Gender Role community, so incredibly happy relative to people who believe in equality of the sexes?
Matthew D. Hammond and Chris G. Sibley tried to answer this question in their 2011 study entitled Why are Benevolent Sexists Happier? available for free here.
The study really doesn’t come to a logical conclusion except to say that both men and women find that their lives are more naturally structured when they accept Benevolent Sexism as a way of life (note: I consider myself a Benevolent Sexist).
From the study’s abstract on page 332:
“Research indicates that the endorsement of sexist ideology is linked to higher subjective wellbeing for both men and women.”
This is a particularly large study (n = 6,100) and, as we all know, the larger the study, the more accurate it is likely to be.
So gentlemen, get your big boy pants on. Women find you more attractive when you’re just a little bit sexist.
-VIS
Today, I was talking with my girl and I said, “don’t worry your inferior, pretty little head about it.”
She replied, “what’s ‘inferior’?”
Oh, you gem of a girl!
I love to mansplain. I absolutely adore it. But I find girls don’t ask the right questions. They don’t ask me to explain stuff they already know. But since my girl loves when I mansplain to her, she asks ridiculous questions.
And I love her for it.
Find yourself a girl who sets you up for the simplest mansplains on earth. She’ll get the thrill of your condescending tone. You’ll feel like you’re teaching her something and, let’s face it, men love to teach girls.
And girls, if you’re not setting him up for an opportunity to mansplain, it’s you who’s missing out.
-VIS
You see, there are two kinds of people in this world. People who lead and people who follow.
People who lead are called “dominant.” They make sure everything is under control. They care for you, protect you, provide for you, and give you rules to follow so that you feel safe. And you love to feel safe, don’t you?
People who follow are called “submissive.” Submissive people follow their leader and they do as they’re told. They’re soft and very, very polite. They enjoy pleasing other people, so it’s natural for them to obey when someone tells them what to do.
Dominant/submissive relationships mean that you have at least one dominant person and at least one submissive person in a relationship together. It’s a little more (hmmm … “complicated” is a big word) … there’s a little more to it than that, but that’s basically how it works.
See? Simple enough for even a girl to understand.
Good girl!
-VIS
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Thank you. I hadn’t seen this particular study about feminists, but I have seen numerous studies (and I mean over a dozen) that “well meaning” or benevolent sexist men are considered more attractive.
My own girl, for example, was a raging feminist and SJW when we first met. I mean, we’re talking hard-core feminist. We had long conversations about feminism. Slowly, she grew quieter about it over time.
But I asked her about her thoughts on feminism today and she told me she didn’t want to talk about feminism because it makes her head hurt. “I have you,” she told me. “I don’t care what happens outside of us. You’ll take care of it.”
That’s the attraction. Benevolently sexist men are natural providers and protectors. We lift the worries and stresses off of women’s shoulders and take them upon ourselves. It seems to be an almost instinctual reaction for women to be attracted to a man who is sexist. This is backed by a study by Gul and Kupfer (2018).
As I’ve often said, I’m sexist, but not a misogynist. I love women. The fact is, women are inferior. And that’s not just opinion. I have mounds of data to prove that by almost every metric, human females are clearly inferior to human males.
And it’s because women are inferior that men are obligated to provide for them and protect them, just as we would any other inferior creature – like a pet. Men have a duty to women that is in our DNA. Just as it is in a woman’s DNA to serve, nurture, care, and empathize, it is inherent in men to protect, provide, and defend.
And most women, no matter their social views, find that sexier than a man who believes in equality of the sexes.
-VIS
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