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Last Night’s Date

It went very well last night. I met Jennifer, who is absolutely beautiful, thin, very petite (4’10”) and was very positive and perky.

I asked her why she was interested in a trio and she said, “I thought it might be fun to try. I can’t guarantee I’ll be around forever, but I’d regret it if I didn’t try it.” Which seems fair enough to me.

She’s only 21 years old, and I’ve found that younger girls are more experimental in relationships, so that’s probably a factor.

Jennifer is truly a hot piece, though. Amazing beauty.

The food was great, and we had wine that made conversation much easier. Danielle says she loves when I order wine because I always know which wine compliments the food best, which isn’t true. I have no idea what I’m doing when it comes to pairing wines and food, but I’m glad Danielle thinks highly of me in that regard.

I took Jennifer and Danielle home afterward. Danielle will be out of town for 6 days for work, so Jennifer gave me her number and said to call her anytime and we could talk.

All in all, a very successful evening. I wouldn’t say we’re officially a trio yet, but if that’s the direction we’re heading, it won’t take long.


We’re back and taking a gamble

We’re back from the cabin.

While we were there, Danielle was talking about how she missed being in a trio. I said it was unfortunate, but I didn’t want Amanda back. Danielle then asked me if I’d be willing to meet another friend of hers to which I said yes. She called her friend (Jennifer) and we’re going out to dinner tonight, just the three of us.

I only have one picture of Jennifer and it wasn’t a good picture (side profile shot with bad lighting), so we’ll have to see what Jennifer looks like and how compatible I am with her, but Danielle seems to think Jennifer and I will get along well. “She’s just your type,” said Danielle.

I asked Danielle why she was so hung up on me having two girls and she said, “I just think that good men should have whatever they want. And if that’s two girls, that’s fine with me.”

So we’ll give this a shot. I’m glad Danielle didn’t argue with me about Amanda. She and I have broken up twice now and I’m not willing to go through all that again.


Missing Willow

I’m happy and content with Danielle, but recently my mind has been drifting back to Willow and how much I miss her.

Willow was the only girl who really got me. She made some profound statements about me in the time we were together – statements that were facts I couldn’t deny. She was intelligent, insightful, and a damned hard worker. We never once argued. Not once in a year and a half. Circumstances beyond our control forced us apart. It wasn’t our choice.

I won’t even let Danielle call me Daddy because that was Willow’s name for me.

Oh well. There’s no sense crying over spilt milk, but if you’re reading this, Willow, just know I miss you terribly.


I’m back and Danielle

I’m back from the cabin. I managed to cut 6 cord of wood while I was there, so I now have a full winter’s supply of wood for heat.

I got back to find Danielle had spent the entire week at my place without going back to her house. I asked her how she felt about it and she said she enjoyed being alone and relaxing in my home.

I asked her if there were any problems while I was gone and she said she had been thinking (which I know is an automatic problem). She said that she was sad that Amanda had ended the trio but she was happy we were still together. I didn’t ask her why she was sad about Amanda, she is usually pretty up front and will tell me her thoughts.

I spent a lot of time in front of the fire on my week away. Sitting in front of the fire gives me time to think and contemplate. I’ve decided I’m happy with Danielle and won’t try to bring Amanda back into the trio.

She straightened her hair while I was away, and her hair now comes down to her ass, which is fantastic. I have always loved Danielle’s hair and now that it’s straight and long, I love it even more.


If you get her pregnant, marry her.

It’s time I said this: if you get a girl pregnant, marry her.

Don’t be a d*** and leave your girl and children behind to fend for themselves. Man up, for God’s sake, and take care of your family.

Don’t use excuses like “I’m not ready for a family.” You were man enough to have sex without protection, so you’re man enough to provide for those who count on you.

Be a man and look after them. Stop being such a piss poor excuse for a human being.

Man up.



On Friday, I’ll be going away for a week to the cabin to fell trees and cut some wood for the winter.

Danielle will not be coming with me (she has to work), so I’ll be alone for a week.

I haven’t spent time alone at the cabin since the girls and I first got together. It should be wonderful because the cabin is a place of solitude and thinking for me.

If I don’t post about it on Friday, see you in a week and a half.