Author: Vintage In Stepford™

Never “offer” her your jacket when she’s cold.  Quietly take it off and wrap it around her.  If you give her a choice in the matter, she’ll decline.

-VIS

Think she’s complicated? Think again.

Most men think that women are complex creatures. They complain about women over-analyzing, running amok, and being too demanding.

But in fact, the opposite is true. All girls really need in life is 3 things – and they form an acronym: Boundaries, Appreciation, and Routine – or BAR.

If she has Boundaries, which include punishment for violation, she knows there are limitations on how far she can go before you put her back in her place. Boundaries also include accountability for her actions. These Boundaries give her a sense of security unlike anything else you can give her.

Of course, she needs Appreciation – to be used like a slut, to be cuddled when she cries, to be told she’s a “good girl” when her behavior is at its best. Appreciation includes “I love you”s and maintenance spankings.

She requires Routine which includes consistency. If she’s busy with her Routine, she doesn’t have time to over-think. If she doesn’t have time to over-think, she can’t over-analyze every little situation in her life, and that’s liberating for her.

Make no mistake, she will consistently test to make sure these 3 things are still in place. It’s not a challenge to your authority, your masculinity, or your dominance; it’s actually a compliment. She treats these little tests like a “ping” signal. She pings because maybe, just maybe, she’s feeling a little insecure right at that moment and she needs to know the BAR is still firmly in place and because you’re the only one who can make her feel secure again. Don’t cower from the test, delight in it. She’s pinging you because she believes in you and knows with all her heart that you’ll return the ping signal with a loving, “it’s okay, babygirl … everything’s under control.”

All your girl has ever wanted is freedom in chains. Give her that freedom.

Set the BAR for her.

-VIS

And we never will.

So be cute and adorable instead of angry and bitter. You’ll get more attention and are more likely to get what you want.

Femininity – empowering girls since the dawn of time.

-VIS

We all know you secretly get wet from it. You aren’t fooling anyone.

-VIS

Anti-feminists are not anti-female.

If anything, we respect women more than feminists do by respecting their natural inclinations.

-VIS

When I started this WordPress blog, I didn’t even realize it was possible to follow a blog or receive notifications by email.

I know better now and wanted to personally thank my WordPress followers and those who receive notifications by email.  Seeing the numbers grow inspires me to keep writing.

Thank you all.

-VIS

 

I’m a white, heterosexual, Christ-following, cis-gendered, right-leaning Classical liberal.

I believe marriage is between a man and a woman.  I believe that just because you call yourself “trans” (pre-op or post-op), it doesn’t mean you’re no longer the gender you were when you were born.

I believe you are responsible for your own life.  I believe hardship makes you stronger.  I believe socialism is self-destructive.  And I believe it is more important to teach children character than to teach them subjects.

In the intersectional hierarchy of oppression, I’m an Apex predator of toxic masculinity.

And I just realized that that is exactly why I became so popular.

I never apologized for being who I am and never will.

-VIS