Girls become spoiled brats if you give them everything they want.
To keep a girl happy and obedient, learn to say ‘no.’ Sure, she’ll whine and fuss for a little while, but in the end, she’ll appreciate that you have set boundaries for her and won’t let her overstep them.
There are some traditional, submissive girls who love to bake, but despise cooking.
Why is that?
Baking involves obedience. If she follows the instructions exactly, the baked goods will always turn out perfectly. Think of it as the baking book giving orders. If all she has to do is obey, she knows everything will be fine.
Cooking is more freestyle. “Season to taste.” “A splash of white wine.” “A handful of chopped celery.” There’s too much freedom. What is “to taste”? What’s a “splash”? Whose handful?
Cooking is a lot of stress for some girls. They have to think on their feet and they don’t like that. Baking, on the other hand, is just obedience to the written letter. That’s simple. Not easy, mind you, but simple.
When a submissive girl loves to bake but hates to cook, you know you’ve got a girl who will obey your orders faithfully and – without adding or taking away from what you’ve commanded – will yield the results you desire so long as you give her precise instructions on how to accomplish the task.
You asked him to make a decision for you and he didn’t give you the answer you wanted to hear.
But look back on your relationship with him. He’s always been right or, at least, rarely wrong. And if you think hard, you may not have realized it at the time, or the next day, or even the next week, but eventually, one day you said to yourself, “he was right.”
The entire point of trusting someone with your life is to trust that they have the wisdom to make good decisions on your behalf. And the only way to trust is to realize that he’s rarely wrong about anything and that your judgment, quite frankly, is terrible.