Toi, Danielle, and Jennifer suggested I meet a friend of theirs (from the restaurant) named Holly, but I turned them down. I think six girls would be a ridiculous amount. I mean, I’m not running a harem!
Dinners have been great and the girls are really getting a lot of time off. Emily and I are getting along super well. She’s almost like another Danielle – never gets offended, always agreeable, etc.
The girls are all working this weekend because of the Canada Day long weekend.
Most men think that women are complex creatures. They complain about women over-analyzing, running amok, and being too demanding.
But in fact, the opposite is true. All girls really need in life is 3 things – and they form an acronym: Boundaries, Appreciation, and Routine – or BAR.
If she has Boundaries, which include punishment for violation, she knows there are limitations on how far she can go before you put her back in her place. Boundaries also include accountability for her actions. These Boundaries give her a sense of security unlike anything else you can give her.
Of course, she needs Appreciation – to be used like a slut, to be cuddled when she cries, to be told she’s a “good girl” when her behavior is at its best. Appreciation includes “I love you”s and maintenance spankings.
She requires Routine which includes consistency. If she’s busy with her Routine, she doesn’t have time to over-think. If she doesn’t have time to over-think, she can’t over-analyze every little situation in her life, and that’s liberating for her.
Make no mistake, she will consistently test to make sure these 3 things are still in place. It’s not a challenge to your authority, your masculinity, or your dominance; it’s actually a compliment. She treats these little tests like a “ping” signal. She pings because maybe, just maybe, she’s feeling a little insecure right at that moment and she needs to know the BAR is still firmly in place and because you’re the only one who can make her feel secure again. Don’t cower from the test, delight in it. She’s pinging you because she believes in you and knows with all her heart that you’ll return the ping signal with a loving, “it’s okay, babygirl … everything’s under control.”
All your girl has ever wanted is freedom in chains. Give her that freedom.
Despite what modern feminist society teaches, she’s your property and your toy. You own her. So the responsibility for her happiness rests on your shoulders.
To keep her happy, use the BAR system. Be sure to give her Boundaries to make her feel safe. Show her plenty of Appreciation like hugs and kisses. Give her a strict Routine to keep her from over thinking.
When she has these chains around her, she’ll feel safe and loved.
I went on my date night with all the girls last night. It was an absolute blast. All of the girls were dressed to the nines and looked sexy and spectacular. We all had a fabulous dinner and then some of them (Danielle, Toi, and Isabella) came home with me.
We had a great time in bed and fell asleep about 3am. It was marvelous.
Sorry I really don’t have much more to say about last night. I’m tired and don’t really feel like writing.
Well, last night, I had a wonderful date with Toi. We went out to dinner together at a French/Italian restaurant here in town.
The food was spectacular. I didn’t drink wine because I’ve been trying to cut down on my alcohol consumption. Toi didn’t ask for wine and I didn’t offer it.
It was a fine date. Toi really is a dummy. She kept talking about how impressed she was with the places I choose for dinner. Once was fine, but when it came to the third time, I just told her, “Toi, shut up about how impressed you are, baby. I get it.”
We went back to my place and had great sex (she sucked me before as is her ritual). She really does have an oral fixation and she’s fabulous at sucking.
I took her home about 2:15am when I went to pick up Danielle from the restaurant.
Emily is coming with me to drop off food again today. I’m planning to have sex with her when we get back to my place. She always seems willing, so it shouldn’t be a problem. My sex drive has jumped lately, so Emily will have to bear that burden.