Isabella Dumped Me

Well, Isabella called it off between us.

I can’t say I’m surprised. Even though she had a lot of time free, we didn’t go on a lot of dates together.

Now, I feel more confident about checking out Holly, the friend of Toi, Danielle, and Jennifer.

I’m going to go into the restaurant and ask her out on a date.


Just a Brief Update

There have been a lot of dates lately.

Toi, Danielle, and Jennifer suggested I meet a friend of theirs (from the restaurant) named Holly, but I turned them down. I think six girls would be a ridiculous amount. I mean, I’m not running a harem!

Dinners have been great and the girls are really getting a lot of time off. Emily and I are getting along super well. She’s almost like another Danielle – never gets offended, always agreeable, etc.

The girls are all working this weekend because of the Canada Day long weekend.

Just a brief update.


Believe It Or Not, Women Are Simple Creatures – The BAR System

Think she’s complicated?  Think again.

Most men think that women are complex creatures.  They complain about women over-analyzing, running amok, and being too demanding.

But in fact, the opposite is true.  All girls really need in life is 3 things – and they form an acronym: Boundaries, Appreciation, and Routine – or BAR.

If she has Boundaries, which include punishment for violation, she knows there are limitations on how far she can go before you put her back in her place. Boundaries also include accountability for her actions.  These Boundaries give her a sense of security unlike anything else you can give her.  

Of course, she needs Appreciation – to be used like a slut, to be cuddled when she cries, to be told she’s a “good girl” when her behavior is at its best. Appreciation includes “I love you”s and maintenance spankings.

She requires Routine which includes consistency.  If she’s busy with her Routine, she doesn’t have time to over-think.  If she doesn’t have time to over-think, she can’t over-analyze every little situation in her life, and that’s liberating for her.

Make no mistake, she will consistently test to make sure these 3 things are still in place.  It’s not a challenge to your authority, your masculinity, or your dominance; it’s actually a compliment.  She treats these little tests like a “ping” signal.  She pings because maybe, just maybe, she’s feeling a little insecure right at that moment and she needs to know the BAR is still firmly in place and because you’re the only one who can make her feel secure again.  Don’t cower from the test, delight in it.  She’s pinging you because she believes in you and knows with all her heart that you’ll return the ping signal with a loving, “it’s okay, babygirl … everything’s under control.”

All your girl has ever wanted is freedom in chains.  Give her that freedom.  

Set the BAR for her.


Freedom in Chains

Despite what modern feminist society teaches, she’s your property and your toy.  You own her.  So the responsibility for her happiness rests on your shoulders.

To keep her happy, use the BAR system.  Be sure to give her Boundaries to make her feel safe.  Show her plenty of Appreciation like hugs and kisses.  Give her a strict Routine to keep her from over thinking.  

When she has these chains around her, she’ll feel safe and loved.

Just ask her – there’s freedom in chains.


It’s Time For a Kitchen Counter-Revolution

Women who wear jeans, don’t know how to cook, and spend most of their time at the club or on Facebook used to be revolutionary.  Now they’re just “normies.”

Girls who wear dresses, heels, and aprons, can cook a fabulous meal from scratch, and spend most of their time tending to their man’s needs used to be an average girl.  Now they’re the rebels.

There’s too many normies in today’s world.  It’s time for a counter-revolution.  And what’s the best place for a counter-revolution?  Why, the kitchen counter, of course.

Put on a dress and a pair of heels.  Tie your apron around your waist.  Grab that old cookbook.  Get back in the kitchen.

Be a rebel.


Date Night!

I went on my date night with all the girls last night. It was an absolute blast. All of the girls were dressed to the nines and looked sexy and spectacular. We all had a fabulous dinner and then some of them (Danielle, Toi, and Isabella) came home with me.

We had a great time in bed and fell asleep about 3am. It was marvelous.

Sorry I really don’t have much more to say about last night. I’m tired and don’t really feel like writing.


Date with Danielle

Danielle has been my faithful partner for well over a year now and I wanted to make our date special, so we went out of town for dinner. I had made reservations a couple of days ago.

The food was fantastic. Danielle only took about 45 minutes to get ready. The entire date was great.

Then we went back to our place and had sex and I was reminded why I chose Danielle in the first place. She’s spectacular in bed!

She gets another day off on Sunday night, so we’ll have to see if I can take her out again then.


Date with Toi

Well, last night, I had a wonderful date with Toi. We went out to dinner together at a French/Italian restaurant here in town.

The food was spectacular. I didn’t drink wine because I’ve been trying to cut down on my alcohol consumption. Toi didn’t ask for wine and I didn’t offer it.

It was a fine date. Toi really is a dummy. She kept talking about how impressed she was with the places I choose for dinner. Once was fine, but when it came to the third time, I just told her, “Toi, shut up about how impressed you are, baby. I get it.”

We went back to my place and had great sex (she sucked me before as is her ritual). She really does have an oral fixation and she’s fabulous at sucking.

I took her home about 2:15am when I went to pick up Danielle from the restaurant.

Emily is coming with me to drop off food again today. I’m planning to have sex with her when we get back to my place. She always seems willing, so it shouldn’t be a problem. My sex drive has jumped lately, so Emily will have to bear that burden.