Give Her a Day of Rest

Traditional, submissive girls work so hard to please you that they often need 24 hours just to recharge their batteries – a day where they can sleep in and treat themselves to things they may not get otherwise.

That doesn’t mean she should be left with nothing to do. Once she has spent 8, 10, or even 12 hours sleeping, make sure she is kept busy doing things that she enjoys whether that is shopping, going to the spa, or just scrolling Tumblr.

Yes, girls need a day of rest. But if you give them time to sit around and think, they become overwhelmed. If they become overwhelmed, they become sad. If they become sad, it’s not really a day of rest, is it?

Give your girl a day off, but don’t give her free time. She can rest and recharge without becoming overwhelmed and depressed.


The “Face Slap Reset”

Have you ever noticed how – when your man slaps your face – every thought and emotion you had at the time suddenly becomes reset?

A face slap grounds you.  It helps you to realize how emotional, hormonal, and irrational you were being just a second or two before. It helps you understand that you were not thinking logically.

Best of all, it reminds you that he’s in control of everything – your world, your emotions, and your body.

When he slaps your face – and he will, eventually, if you allow yourself to become too over-emotional – remember to thank him for bringing you back down to earth.

A firm slap to your cheek is one of the greatest gifts he can give you when your world seems to be spiraling out of control.