If you’re a single, submissive girl, it’s important to know that you can say “no” anytime to anyone for any reason at all. And there are times when you should.
There is nothing wrong with self-preservation. There is nothing wrong with looking after yourself. There is nothing wrong with realizing that you’re completely spent and need to focus on the person in the mirror.
When you have too much time on your hands, it’s in your nature to serve and help other people. But when there are too many hands on your time, be sure you say “no” when things get overwhelming. Don’t feel guilty. You’re not a failure. You’re a human being with a limited amount of energy to give.
It’s okay to say no.