Remember they told you Santa Claus was real?
Remember they told you you were equal to men?
Your scent is one of the most soothing things in her world.
Whether she’s wearing your shirt, sleeping with her face in your crotch, or just burying her nose in your neck, you’ll discover she finds your scent calming and quietening.
As a man in a Traditional Gender Role relationship, you have an incredible amount of power over her – physically, mentally, and emotionally. Use it to build up her self-esteem, not break it down.
If you’re threatened by your girl having high self-esteem, it’s time to examine your own.
So your traditional girl is stressed to the max? Her anxiety is climbing, she’s having a difficult time dealing with everything going on in her life, and it seems like she may fall apart at any moment.
It’s your first instinct in such a situation to relax the rules and broaden her boundaries, but that would be a huge mistake. At times like that, your girl needs more restrictions to feel safe.
When her world starts spinning out of control, the only real safety net she knows is that the boundaries and rules you set upon her give her comfort.
For example, let’s say you’re talking to her while she’s in a stressful situation and you give her a piece of advice. She replies, “yeah.” Don’t let that go. Call her out on it.
“It’s not ‘yeah’, little girl,” you remind her. “It’s ‘yes Sir’.”
This is called protocol. How your girl addresses you and the formality with which she responds restricts her language and her thoughts.
When her thoughts are restricted, she can’t overthink. When she can’t overthink, she can’t get overwhelmed. And when she can’t get overwhelmed, it’s easier for her to face the task at hand.
To your girl in a difficult situation, more structure = less stress.
Your traditional girl, despite all her talents, is not a mind reader. She really, really wants to be a good girl, but if you don’t tell her exactly what to do in order to hear those magic words, she feels lost.
Give her clear, concise instructions on what you want done and exactly how you want it done. Keep the instructions brief. She shouldn’t need to write it down, she should be able to keep your instructions in her memory.
Once you’ve given her the instructions, ask, “do you have any questions?”
You need to ask this so that she can clarify anything you may have omitted.
Help her be a good girl. Be specific.
For millennia, women had it made – staying in the safety of the home, having everything provided, focusing on things they love like cooking, baking, and sewing … ah, the good ol’ days.
And then suddenly women think, “oh wow, we can do all the things men can do!”
So despite the obvious flaws in that logic, such as the fact that woman are physically weaker than men (Bishop & Cureton, 1987), that women have 8 – 13% less brain mass than men (Ankney, 1992), and that women are, on average, 3.75 IQ points dumber than men given the same brain mass (Van der Linden et al., 2017) women decided to pursue “equal rights” – the right to work like slaves for some stranger for 40+ hours per week, the right to not have anyone physically attracted to them, the right to not have someone provide for their every need … you know, important rights.
Women had it made and ended up royally screwing themselves over. Studies show women’s absolute happiness and happiness relative to men has been declining drastically for 35 years (Stevenson & Wolfers, 2009).
And why would they give up all that happiness, safety, and fun?
One reason – and men have known it since the dawn of time:
“Leave it to a woman to screw things up.”
When you’re at a party with your seated girl, come up behind her and gently squeeze the nape of her neck.
She’ll smile knowing that you’re making a public declaration:
“This one is mine.”
Next time you take her out for dinner, assuming you know her tastes and preferences, tell her to put down her menu and that you’ll order for her.
You might be surprised how relieved she is that she doesn’t have to make a decision.
I own you and you do as I say.
One of the most powerful signals you can send to the world is that your girl is your property to do with as you please.
By grabbing and slapping your girl’s ass in public, something no other man would dare to do, you’re declaring, “she is mine and I’ll do to her whatever I wish.”
In an age when governments and authorities are looking to undermine a man’s authority over his girl, nothing will get her wetter faster than a public declaration of ownership and control.