Traditional, submissive girls work so hard to please you that they often need 24 hours just to recharge their batteries – a day where they can sleep in and treat themselves to things they may not get otherwise.
That doesn’t mean she should be left with nothing to do. Once she has spent 8, 10, or even 12 hours sleeping, make sure she is kept busy doing things that she enjoys whether that is shopping, going to the spa, or just scrolling Tumblr.
Yes, girls need a day of rest. But if you give them time to sit around and think, they become overwhelmed. If they become overwhelmed, they become sad. If they become sad, it’s not really a day of rest, is it?
My Willow’s day off is Sunday. She spends 16 hours sleeping then I keep her busy with shopping for herself, skin care, and things that she will neglect because she’s too focused on me. If I give her “free time”, she’ll get blue, and that’s the last thing either of us needs.
Give your girl a day off, but don’t give her free time. She can rest and recharge without becoming overwhelmed and depressed.