Month: October 2018

Should a Dom allow his sub to be more independent if he is not well so she can care for him better and to relieve him of the stress of caring for another person?

Absolutely.

Not much more to add to this except that sometimes dominant people need to be cared for due to injury, illness, etc.  That necessarily requires that the submissive person must become more independent in order to temporarily provide.

As soon as things get back to normal, get the dynamic back to normal, too.

-VIS

Could you give some examples of gaslighting please? Thank you! F/20/5’2/120/USA

I already did.  Weren’t you listening?  Geez, sometimes I think you’re too dumb for your own good.  I already gave you about 10 examples and you’re still not getting it through your thick little skull.  Still, I love ya to bits, even if you’re a dummy.

😉

5 pieces of information.  Gold Star!  Very good girl!

-VIS

Thank you!

femaledenialdiary:

vintageinstepford:

amindlessrose:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

Books??

You can find my book titles here:

http://vintageinstepford.com/books

Or by going to Amazon and searching 101 Bimbo Mantras by Mr. V. I. Stepford, and Meditations & Reflections by Joseph Kahler (both pseudonyms).

In December, I’m hoping to complete a long-standing project: 101 Topics Mansplained for Girls.  If all goes well, it will be released in time for Christmas.

-VIS

Omg yes. The second ones sounds so good 😍😍 I wanna buy it for Christmas!!😶😶😶 they say books aren’t for girls but they haven’t saw these pieces!!

Thinky thinky books are not for girls, and Meditations & Reflections is somewhat of a thinky thinky book.  Mind you, it has some very simple prose in there that you might appreciate.

I’m going to need help from my followers to come up with topics for the mansplaining book.  I have about 50 topics already, but coming up with topics to mansplain seems to be quite difficult.

-VIS

[Edit:  Corrected “their” to “there.”  Happens to the best of us.]

Thank you!

femaledenialdiary:

femaledenialdiary:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

I will buy the books today and I will read and review them as good as my female brain can do! I love the fact that you have books and the titles sound interesting!

I brought one book with the bimbo mantras. I can’t find the other one but I have enough to think about with the one book. I made a list with my favorite (1,3,4,16,17,21,25, 26 makes me wet because of the explanation. 28, 31, 32, 38, 39, 40,41,42,54, 60, 62, 65, 67, 68, 74, 75, 77, 80, 82, 83, 88. 89, 90, 97, 98, 100!!) I just went through it quick BUT I want dedicate a day(or week?) for every single mantra to keep it in my mind longer.

What do do you think? Good idea?

I’d suggest one week focusing on each mantra, repeating it to yourself as much as possible.  The busier your mind is with a mantra, the less it can think about icky stuff that stresses you out.

-VIS

Thank you!

amindlessrose:

vintageinstepford:

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who has purchased either one (or both) of my 2 books from Amazon.

I received another royalty payment overnight and thought it was only right to thank you all for supporting my writing.

-VIS

Books??

You can find my book titles here:

http://vintageinstepford.com/books

Or by going to Amazon and searching 101 Bimbo Mantras by Mr. V. I. Stepford, and Meditations & Reflections by Joseph Kahler (both pseudonyms).

In December, I’m hoping to complete a long-standing project: 101 Topics Mansplained for Girls.  If all goes well, it will be released in time for Christmas.

-VIS

Talk In Circles

vintageinstepford:

When you’re having a debate with her, talk in circles to completely confuse her.  Whenever she makes a counterpoint to your argument, say things like:

You’re making my point for me.

That’s exactly what I’ve been trying to get through to you.

So you agree with me then.

Then, when she’s convinced she’s right, tell her:

No, no, sweetheart, you had it right a few minutes ago.  Now you’re not even making sense.

Even if none of what she says is true, talking in circles in a debate can confuse the life out of her.  It will frustrate her terribly.  It will also arouse her more than she ever believed possible.

When she feels like a dummy, she acts like a slut.

-VIS