She Loves To Be Degraded? Slow Down.

vintageinstepford:

When a girl on Tumblr says she loves to be degraded and humiliated, don’t think it’s cool to message her with, “you’re a filthy slut and I want to rape you.

Not cool, dude, not cool.

It may seem counter-intuitive, but she still wants to be wooed like a lady.  She wants to know you’re a charming, intelligent man.  She wants to know you have the intellectual fortitude to challenge her.

And when she makes the first move and tells you just how dirty she can be, then – and only then – can you tell her things like, “oh I know you well enough now to know you’re a filthy little slut deep inside.

Bide your time.  Be patient.  Don’t be a jerk.

The payoff is worth it.

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