Month: July 2018

She Loves To Be Degraded? Slow Down.

vintageinstepford:

When a girl on Tumblr says she loves to be degraded and humiliated, don’t think it’s cool to message her with, “you’re a filthy slut and I want to rape you.”

Not cool, dude, not cool.

It may seem counter-intuitive, but she still wants to be wooed like a lady.  She wants to know you’re a charming, intelligent man.  She wants to know you have the intellectual fortitude to challenge her.

And when she makes the first move and tells you just how dirty she can be, then – and only then – can you tell her things like, “oh I know you well enough now to know you’re a filthy little slut deep inside.”

Bide your time.  Be patient.  Don’t be a jerk.

The payoff is worth it.

Be Supportive

She’s going to go through trials in life and one of the best things you can do for her emotional well-being during these periods is to be supportive while ensuring that her routine doesn’t change.

Because most girls are high-strung, she relies on her daily routine to keep her centered, focused, and grounded.  During times of stress, a rigid routine ensures she doesn’t overthink stressful situations and helps maintain a sense of normalcy.

Being supportive isn’t just a hug and a “there, there.”

It can also mean enforcing a rigid routine that helps her cope.

-VIS

Thank You!

I want to thank each and every one of you who messaged me or inboxed me with get well wishes while my hands healed.

Things are better now, though not 100%, and I’ve been forced to switch to a less harmful keyboard.

As you can imagine, a writer switching keyboards is like a rabbi switching religions (lol), so it’ll take me a little bit of time to get back up to speed and “get in touch” with the new keyboard.

Thanks again for all your warm wishes and I’ll reply to inboxes and anons as soon as I can.

Oh, and the VIS avatar and background have changed.

-VIS

What Sets You Apart?

vintageinstepford:

When you want to get into a relationship with a man, you have to remember a critical factor: every skill you have, he either has or can hire (including sex).

So how do you set yourself apart?

He’s going to love you if you’re 3 things: dumb, pretty, and submissive.

Sure, some men will say they love intelligence in a girl, and some are not that bothered about the other two factors, but the overwhelming majority of men want a girl who is what?  Dumb, pretty, and submissive.

Repeat it to yourself over and over:

“I’m the perfect girl because I’m dumb, pretty, and submissive.”

There you go.  Good girl.

-VIS

What Have “Rights” Done For You Anyway?

vintageinstepford:

Beg your man to take your rights away, even if only for a weekend.

What have rights done for you anyway?  You get to vote, except you think the candidates suck.  You get equal opportunity, though all you want to do is be a housewife/sex toy.  You can say and think whatever you wish, except that you really want a dominant, older man to tell you to shut your pretty little mouth and do as you’re told.

What have rights done for you anyway?  Do your rights bring true happiness?Absolutely not.

So beg your man to strip you of your rights.  You’ll be amazed how happiness greets you at the end of a chain.

-VIS

Defer To Him

vintageinstepford:

Defer to him as much as you can.

A friend asks if you can come over tonight?  Tell her you have to ask him.

A salesman wants to know if you want to buy that product today?  Tell him you have to ask your man.

You want to buy something?  Ask your man if you can afford it.

When you defer to him, you’re allowing him the opportunity to create reality out of the vision he has for the relationship and, believe it or not, he does have a vision.

Besides, deferring to your man on even the smallest issues will make him feel needed and will make you feel like he’s in control of your universe – and that lowers your stress level.

Don’t fool yourself into the common girl-trap of “I don’t want to bother him.”  He absolutely loves to be asked these kinds of questions.  You’re handing more control of your life over to him every time you ask his permission for something.  You’ll find your man always, always, always has time for more control.

Defer to him.  You’ll both be happier.

-VIS

vintageinstepford:

If you wear torn jeans and a sloppy sweatshirt, you’ll find very few men will hold a door for you.

But if you put on a dress, heels, and a pearl necklace, men will fall over themselves to hold that same door.

There is great power in femininity.  Feminine women have shaped empires, influenced world leaders, and helped to make the world a better place.  Feminism has contributed nothing of value to modern society and women are unhappier than they have ever been.

Femininity is more powerful than feminism.  Always has been, always will be.

-VIS